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Communication as a Christian Wife

As Christian wives, we are called to honor and submit to our husbands as unto the Lord (Ephesians 5:22). This includes how we communicate with our spouse. In this lesson, we will explore the importance of effective communication in marriage and how we can strive to be better Christian wives through our words and actions.

I. Communication with Love
1. The Bible teaches us that love is patient and kind, and it is not easily angered. As Christian wives, we should strive to communicate with our husbands in a loving and respectful manner.
2. We must remember that our words have the power to build up or tear down our spouses. Let us choose to speak words of encouragement, gratitude, and love to our husbands.
3. By communicating with love, we can create a safe and nurturing environment in our marriage where both partners feel heard and valued.

II. Listening with Understanding
1. Communication is a two-way street, and as Christian wives, we must also learn to listen to our husbands with understanding and empathy.
2. We should seek to understand our spouse’s thoughts, feelings, and desires, even when we may not agree with them. By truly listening, we show respect and honor to our husbands.
3. Let us practice active listening by giving our full attention, maintaining eye contact, and providing feedback to show that we understand and care about what our husbands are saying.

III. Resolving Conflict Peacefully
1. Conflict is inevitable in marriage, but as Christian wives, we are called to handle disagreements with grace and humility.
2. Instead of resorting to yelling, name-calling, or ultimatums, let us approach conflict with a willingness to listen, compromise, and seek reconciliation.
3. By practicing effective communication skills such as active listening, using “I” statements, and seeking to understand our spouse’s perspective, we can resolve conflicts peacefully and strengthen our marriage bond.

Communication is a vital component of a healthy and thriving marriage. As Christian wives, let us strive to communicate with love, listen with understanding, and resolve conflicts peacefully in our relationships. By following God’s guidance and wisdom in our communication, we can honor our husbands and be a shining example of Christ’s love in our marriages.

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Possible Viewpont: Evangelical Christian


1 Peter 3:1-2
Proverbs 31:26
Ephesians 4:15
Proverbs 15:1
Ephesians 4:29
Colossians 4:6
Proverbs 31:11-12

Questions for Lesson

1. How does your faith in God shape the way you communicate with your spouse as a Christian wife?
2. In what ways do you seek to emulate the qualities of the Proverbs 31 woman in your marriage?
3. How do you navigate conflicts within your marriage while upholding Christian values as a wife?
4. What role does prayer play in your relationship with your spouse as a Christian wife?
5. Quiz Question: According to Ephesians 5:22-24, what is the biblical role of a Christian wife in her marriage?
6. Quiz Question: How does 1 Corinthians 7:3-5 emphasize the importance of sexual intimacy within a Christian marriage?

Worship Music for Lesson

1. “Speak Life” by TobyMac
2. “Words” by Hawk Nelson
3. “The Power of Your Name” by Lincoln Brewster
4. “Love They Neighbor” by Audio Adrenaline

Object Lesson

– A mirror
– A heart-shaped puzzle with missing pieces
– A piece of paper and pen
– A Bible

1. Begin by holding up the mirror and explaining that as Christian wives, we are called to reflect the love and character of Christ in our marriages. Just as a mirror reflects our physical appearance, our words and actions should reflect the love of Christ to our husbands.

2. Show the heart-shaped puzzle with missing pieces and explain that communication is like putting together a puzzle – it requires effort, patience, and attention to detail. Just as each piece is important to complete the puzzle, every word we speak and every action we take plays a role in building a strong marriage.

3. Give the piece of paper and pen to an audience member and ask them to write down three ways they can improve their communication as a Christian wife. Encourage everyone to take time to pray and seek guidance from the Bible on how to better communicate with their spouse.

4. Share a verse from the Bible about communication in marriage, such as Ephesians 4:29 – “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.” Emphasize the importance of speaking words of kindness, encouragement, and respect in our marriages.

5. Conclude by reminding everyone that with God’s help and guidance, we can grow in our communication skills and build stronger, more fulfilling marriages as Christian wives.


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