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Forgiveness and reconciliation in marriage

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Title: Forgiveness and Reconciliation in Marriage

Theme: God desires forgiveness and reconciliation in our marriages.

Introduction:
Marriage is a beautiful gift from God. It is a covenant between a man and a woman to love, honor, and cherish each other for the rest of their lives. However, sometimes problems may arise in marriages, and couples may face difficulties. This lesson will teach young children about the importance of forgiveness and reconciliation in marriages.

Bible verse: “Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.” – Colossians 3:13

Story:
Once upon a time, there lived a couple named Jack and Sarah. Jack and Sarah were married and had been together for many years. They loved each other very much, but sometimes they would argue and fight.

One day, Jack and Sarah had a big argument about something silly. Jack said some hurtful things to Sarah that upset her deeply. Sarah started to feel angry and sad, and she didn’t want to be around Jack anymore.

But then Sarah remembered something that her parents had told her. They said that when we are hurt by someone, we should forgive them and try to reconcile. Sarah knew that these words were from God and that she needed to follow them.

Sarah prayed to God and asked Him to help her forgive Jack for the hurtful things he had said. She also asked God to help her talk to Jack and tell him how his words had hurt her. After praying, Sarah felt a sense of peace in her heart.

The next day, Sarah went to Jack and told him how his words had hurt her. Jack realized that he was wrong and said sorry to Sarah. Sarah forgave him and they hugged each other. They knew that God had helped them reconcile their differences, and their love for each other grew stronger.

Discussion:
– Have you ever been hurt by someone you love?
– How did it make you feel?

Closing:
God wants us to forgive and reconcile with one another, especially in our marriages. We need to remember that we are not perfect, and we make mistakes. If we follow God’s teachings, we can learn to forgive and reconcile, just like Sarah and Jack did. Let’s pray and ask God to help us forgive and reconcile with those we love. Amen.

Worship Music for Lesson

1. “Forgiveness” by Matthew West – this song emphasizes the importance of forgiveness in relationships and how it can bring healing and restoration. The lyrics are simple and easy for young children to understand.

2. “The Heart of Worship” by Matt Redman – while not specifically about forgiveness, this song encourages Christians to focus on the heart of worship rather than external actions. This can be applied to forgiveness and reconciliation in marriage, where the focus should be on the heart of the issue rather than just surface-level actions.

3. “Healing Begins” by Tenth Avenue North – this song touches on the idea that forgiveness and reconciliation are a process that may take time, but that healing can begin when we choose to let go. The message is clear and can be easily understood by young children.

4. “Amazing Grace (My Chains are Gone)” by Chris Tomlin – this classic hymn has been updated to include a powerful message of forgiveness and freedom. The lyrics can help children understand that through forgiveness, we are set free from the chains of bitterness and anger.

Questions for Lesson

1. How can forgiveness strengthen a marriage relationship?

2. In what ways can you show love and forgiveness towards your spouse, even during difficult times?

3. What does the Bible say about the importance of forgiveness and reconciliation in marriage?

4. How can a lack of forgiveness affect a marriage relationship?

5. According to the Bible, what is the purpose of marriage?

6. In what ways can you actively work to maintain a healthy and loving marriage relationship?

Scriptures

1. Ephesians 4:32
2. Colossians 3:13
3. Matthew 6:14-15
4. Mark 11:25
5. Luke 6:37
6. James 5:16
7. Proverbs 17:9
8. 1 Corinthians 13:5
9. 1 Peter 3:7
10. Romans 12:18

Object Lesson

Title: “Mending Broken Hearts”

Props:
– Two pieces of paper
– Scissors
– Tape
– Markers or colored pencils
– A heart-shaped piece of fabric or felt
– Needle and thread

Presentation:

1. Introduce the topic of forgiveness and reconciliation in marriage. Explain that sometimes, even in the happiest marriages, people hurt each other’s feelings and make mistakes. However, with forgiveness and effort, it’s possible to heal and improve the relationship.

2. Hold up the two pieces of paper. One paper represents a husband, and the other represents a wife. Ask the children to draw or write on each paper something that one person might do to hurt or upset the other (e.g., forgetting an important event, being too busy to spend time together, saying something unkind).

3. Use the scissors to cut the heart shape out of the fabric or felt. Explain that this represents the love between the husband and wife, and that when it’s broken, it can be difficult to repair.

4. Hold up the two paper pieces again and explain that forgiveness is like tape. It can help to stick the broken heart back together. Show the children how to tape the two pieces of paper together so that they form a heart shape.

5. Next, show the children how to sew the heart-shaped fabric or felt onto the tape to hold it in place. Discuss how this represents the effort and work that needs to happen to repair a broken heart and restore the love in a marriage.

6. Conclude by emphasizing the importance of forgiveness, communication, and hard work in a successful marriage. Encourage the children to think about how they can apply these concepts in their own lives, whether in their own families or future relationships.

Craft Idea

Craft Idea: Forgiveness Flowers

Supplies:
– Construction paper in various colors
– Scissors
– Glue
– Markers or crayons
– Pencil

Instructions:
1. Begin by folding a piece of construction paper in half and cutting out a heart shape. This will be the base of your flower.
2. Cut out several smaller hearts in different colors to use as petals.
3. Use a pencil to lightly draw a spiral on the base heart. Cut along the spiral line, being careful not to cut all the way through the heart.
4. Fold the heart along each spiral line to create a three-dimensional flower.
5. Glue the smaller hearts onto the base heart to create the petals of the flower.
6. Use markers or crayons to write messages or draw pictures of forgiveness and reconciliation on each petal.
7. Assemble the flower by gluing the bottom of the spiral to the center of the base heart.
8. Repeat these steps to create additional forgiveness flowers.

Discussion:
As you work on creating these flowers, talk with the children about the importance of forgiveness and reconciliation in marriage. Explain that when we forgive someone, we let go of any anger or hurt we may feel towards them, just as we are letting go of the construction paper as we fold it into the flower. When we reconcile with someone, we build a bridge back to them and restore our relationship, just as we are gluing the petals to the base to create the flower. Encourage the children to think of specific ways they can show forgiveness and work towards reconciliation in their own relationships.

This craft can also be adapted for use in other lessons on forgiveness, reconciliation, or even friendship. It is a simple but meaningful way for children to express their thoughts and feelings on these important topics.

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