### Lesson Title: Understanding God’s Design for Sex and Purity
#### Introduction
Hello, everyone! Today, we are going to talk about a very important topic, one that affects all of us as we grow and start forming deeper relationships. We’re going to discuss God’s plan for sex and the importance of purity before marriage. Our discussion is rooted in love, respect, and understanding, as we explore what the Bible teaches us about this significant part of human life.
#### What is Purity?
Purity is often thought of as freedom from contamination. In biblical terms, purity is living according to God’s design and commands. It is not just about avoiding wrong actions, but also about harboring healthy thoughts and attitudes. Ephesians 5:3 says, “But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God’s holy people.”
#### God’s Design for Sex
Sex was created by God and is good when experienced within the boundaries He set. Genesis 2:24 states, “That is why a man leaves his father and mother and is united to his wife, and they become one flesh.” This verse highlights that sexual union is designed to occur within the context of marriage between a husband and wife. This sacred bond is powerful and reflects a deep connection, both physically and emotionally.
#### Why Wait for Marriage?
1. **Spiritual Connection:** Sex is not just a physical act but a spiritual bonding. Within the sanctity of marriage, sex strengthens the covenant and fosters a unique spiritual unity between spouses (1 Corinthians 6:15-16).
2. **Emotional Safety:** Waiting helps protect individuals from the deep emotional wounds that can occur from premature intimacy. Relationships are the ground where we learn about trust, respect, and love.
3. **Physical Health:** It protects from diseases and potential physical complications linked with multiple sexual partners.
4. **Honoring God:** Living in accordance with God’s commandments expresses our love and reverence for Him. It is an act of obedience and worship (1 Thessalonians 4:3-8).
#### The Role of Grace and Forgiveness
It’s essential to remember that we all fall short sometimes. If you or someone you know has not waited until marriage, it’s crucial to understand that God’s grace is sufficient. 1 John 1:9 assures us, “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.” God is always ready to forgive and heal us.
#### Practical Steps Toward Purity
1. **Guard Your Heart and Mind:** Be mindful of what you watch, read, and listen to. These can influence your thoughts and actions dramatically (Philippians 4:8).
2. **Foster Healthy Relationships:** Surround yourself with friends who respect your values and will support your commitment to purity.
3. **Set Clear Boundaries:** Know your limits in relationships. Discuss these boundaries with your significant other and hold each other accountable.
4. **Seek Wisdom:** Regularly engage with God’s Word, pray, and seek counsel from trusted adults or leaders when you face temptations or uncertainties.
5. **Community Support:** Involve yourself in a community, like a youth group, that upholds biblical values and provides encouragement and fellowship.
#### Conclusion
As we close, remember that purity is not just about rules; it’s about protecting something precious. It’s about living a life that brings honor to God and enriches our relationships. Let’s aim to respect God’s timing and design for all parts of our lives, including our relationships and sexuality. Thank you for being open and respectful during this discussion. Let’s pray.
